This weekend I had the most amazing opportunity- I was able
to go and visit some relatives and to see the house that my Great-Grandmother
was born and raised in. In the fall a woman named Lillian contacted me over
Facebook, saying my Uncle Kirk (Thanks, Kirk!) had let her know I was in Norway
this year and invited me out to come and visit her and her family. They live in
a very small town called Årdal in the Sogn og Fjordane. This town is right
across a mountain (really through a mountain) from Oferdal, which is the place
my Great-Grandmother, my Grandma’s mother, came from. After some back and forth
with Lillian we were finally able to find a weekend that worked for both of us-
so off I went back to my roots!
Because Årdal is in such a remote location and over quite a
few mountains, it is only accessible by bus. On Friday morning I picked up the
5.15 train out of Bø and headed into Oslo. After about a two hour wait, I
picked up the bus for Årdal. Fortunately, the bus driver was kind enough to let
me I had to switch buses partially through my trip, but unfortunately, I did
not bother to ask him about how long that would be. So instead of taking a nice
long 3 hour nap like I could have done, I said the alarm on my phone to go off
every 15-20 minutes so I could wake up and check if we were stopping or not.
After my bus transfer I had about another hour and a half on the bus. It snowed
most of the way through and in fact, once we were up in the mountains, it was
difficult to even tell where the mountains stopped and the sky started. After
dropping off some skiers at the top, we made our way down the mountain to Årdal
and after about 9 hours of traveling I finally made it at 3.30.
Lillian, her husband and her youngest daughter, Ingrid,
picked me up at the bus stop and took me back to their home. I cannot even
imagine growing up in this town. It touches right on the fjord, with a lake
right behind it and mountains completely surrounding it. And their house not
only had a spectacular view, but it looked as if it was right out of a home
design catalogue- absolutely beautiful and so chic. After dropping my things
off in the room, we all had a bite to eat completely with some good
conversation.
Both Lillian and her husband are teachers. Lillian works
with 7th graders and he with 10th graders. They have two
daughters. Ingrid is 24 and works as a nurse in Bergen. Catherina is 27 and is
married with two children- Casper (2) and Ella (1). She and her family also
live in Årdal. In fact much of their family- aunts, uncles, cousins,
grandparents- all live in Årdal. Including, Lillian’s mother and father. Her
father is my Grandma’s cousin.
Afterwards, Ingrid took me a drive and showed me around the
town and some of the houses of her relatives. We stopped by the grocery store
to pick up a few things and then headed back home for some supper. Not only
does Lillian know how to decorate, but she also knows how to cook. We had a
delicious salad and some homemade pizza. We finished out the night talking and
watching some TV.
Saturday morning, after a quick breakfast, we headed out for
Offerdal. To get over to that side of the mountain we had to take a few
tunnels, which included Northern Europe’s steepest tunnel, which was slightly
terrifying. Once on the right side of the mountain, we drove as far as we could
get, but then had to park and walk about ¾ of a mile due to icy conditions. The
weather and the view were absolutely beautiful so it didn’t matter. At the
house we were met with Lillian’s parents and also her sister and her husband. They
gave me a tour of the land and the house. The house itself is not the same one
my Great-Grandmother was born in. It has been rebuilt, but it is on the same
exact location as the old one. The house is surrounded by about 4 other
buildings, all used for storage and keeping animals (when they had them) and an
outhouse. One of the smaller buildings is actually the same as it was when my
Great-Grandmother lived there. They also showed me a bunch of pictures of my
different Norwegian relatives and even some pictures sent by family members in
the States. I was also shown pictures of the time when my mother, uncle and
grandparents came to Norway back when my Momma was about my age now.
We spent a good part of the early afternoon sitting on the
deck eating and drinking tea and coffee. I was able to ask lots of questions
and learn a bunch about my ancestors, with the help of Ingrid and her parents
translating for me- Lillian’s parents do not speak English. After eating, they
took me down by an old mill which my great-great-grandfather used to work at.
In fact, he was the boss or so I’m told. Soon enough though we hiked back up
the mountain to the car.
We made our way back to the house and after a quick shower,
Catherina, her husband and her children joined us at the house for a while. The
kids were so adorable. Casper is just learning to talk and so he could
understand I didn’t speak Norwegian and that made him very shy. But I did get a
big hug from them before they left. Ella is just about 1 (it’s her first birthday
next Saturday) and so she was just as curious as could be. They stayed for
about an hour or so and then had to head home, the kids were getting very
tired.
Ingrid took me on another drive to show me the other half of
Årdal. The city is separated by a lake and she showed me where she went to
upper secondary school and where she used to work and such. We made our way back home to more delicious
food for supper and finished the night with a movie on TV and some more
conversation.
Today (Sunday) after breakfast and packing, we made our way
to the elementary/ middle school where they work. They gave me a nice tour of
the school, showed me their classrooms and offices and other main spots. We
then made our way over to Lillian’s parents’ house for lunch. Traditional
meatballs and mashed potatoes, followed with some riscream for dessert. I do
not think I have ever eaten so much in my life. After stuffing ourselves, they
dug out some old photographs and we spent a good hour or so looking though old photos
of the family. Soon enough it was time to head out so Ingrid could pick up her
train back to Bergen. We dropped Ingrid off and then headed back to the house.
I was able to finish up packing and then soon enough it was time to drop me off
at the train station. Now, after a bus transfer and a transfer to the train I’m
about a half an hour away from home, which sounds so wonderful after 8 hours of
traveling.
My visit was short, but very sweet. Lillian and her family
were so wonderful to me and I cannot begin to explain the simple amazement and
honor I felt by being to go back to the home of my ancestors. It was quite the
experience and I cannot thank them enough for having me.
With this trip completed, I’m back to Bø and back to finals.
I have my first one on Tuesday and then will be finishing up hopefully by May 3rd.
I’m going to push myself to get all of my papers done before my mother makes
her way here.
It is the most terrifying thing to think I will be going
home in a month and 10 days. Don’t get me wrong- I miss you all back home
dearly- but I am just not quite ready for this grand adventure to be over with.
Actually I don’t know if I could ever be ready for it to be over with.